I have been going to sit down to write for a week or more now, but haven't been been "up to it". This post is titled
FIRSTS, and I will mention three.
1. I am currently in the throngs of my FIRST encounter with a syndrome we have affectionately named "The Tajik Crud"
For the past 2 weeks I have had a plethora of interesting, and annoying physical symptoms. It began with a UTI and kidney infection (I am currently on anti-biotics), followed by a "digestion thing". Emma has also had the pleasure of sharing in this discomfort and we have concluded that it feels like someone is wringing out your intestines like a wet rag or like the "clutching hand" from the Hardy Boys mysteries has taken hold of our stomach and won't let go. Thankfully the pain has subsided, however, I have been left feeling drained and achey (every joint, bone, muscle, and even my teeth hurt!!).... so this too will pass and hopefully I will have a beefed-up immune system in the NEAR future....Emma said, "there is just something wrong with being able to feel your stomach and intestines moving around within you..." I agree..... The PA at the embassy said that the multitude of infections I am fighting is probably due to the water - we are quite diligent about washing things in our own kitchen, but we do eat out occasionally and ironically, showering here introduces all kinds of bacteria into your system.....
2. My FIRST debut into the Diplomatic Community
Last week was Tajik Military Day celebrating 18 years of the Tajik Military's existence. Joe and I attended a Dinner with the Tajik Ministry of Defense, a reception at the Russian Embassy, and a concert. Big week for me. Overall it was a very fun and interesting. The Attache' community is not what I was anticipating. The only wife I have met is the Chinese Attache's wife. She doesn't speak any English and I don't speak any Chinese so there is a lot of smiling and nodding, but overall she seems quite nice. So far, I think she has communicated to me that she does not like here and she does not want to go to lunch with me!!! I had asked her husband to ask her if she would like to go to lunch - Joe thinks maybe something was lost in translation....so no lunch date.. The French Attache' is here alone, the British Attache lives in Tashkent, Uzbekistan and only comes here for business, the Attache' from Kyrgyzstan is here without his wife, the Iranian is here without his wife, the Afghan has a wife, whom I have not seen, the Indian and his wife have been out of the country, so I have not met them. So back to the Chinese....no lunch date....our entertaining aspirations will have to be thought through.
The reception at the Russian Embassy was very nice. A night of mingling, exchanging cards, trying to figure out who is who, etc.... there were some who intentionally avoided Joe!! It was like a game of moving around the room, turning your back at just the right moment, pretending you don't see one another, etc... a mixture of scary and comical for me. I felt a distinct cordial disdain from the assistant Russian Attache's. Having people not like you is a very uncomfortable feeling. Once again, as my Russian is limited to the days of the week, shapes, colors, numbers, and a few animals, I was not able to engage in any intelligent conversation. It is amazing how much you can pick up by knowing a few cognates and by watching peoples faces, etc... our biggest claim to fame for the evening was the fact that we have seven children...
3. My FIRST batch of Tajik Chocolate Chip Cookies
Well, our belongings are still "out there" somewhere. Last we heard the air shipment was on the border of Russia and Kazakhstan (Why? - not sure) Grace asks daily if we can bake a cake. Due to the fact that the only oven safe pan we currently have in our possession is the broiler pan Tanya has generously lent us, there has been no cake baking. We did, however, successfully whip up a batch of pretty good cookies. I wrote out the Russian for "baking soda", "baking powder", and "vanilla", on a card and sent Nate to the little store and sure enough, Husvakt had everything we needed!!! I am telling you that place is amazing. It is a little bigger than the walk in closet in my house, but so well organized and stocked, that you can get almost everything you want or need. There isn't any brown sugar here and no molasses, so they weren't awesome, but with a Ritter Sport Milk Chocolate bar chopped up for chips, not bad!
All in all we are starting to feel more at home all the time.
Love to you all, Jen